I remember when I was young I was obsessed with looking in the mirror. There was a running discussion at Spelman College, my alma mater, about how much time I stood looking in the mirror.
At the time if they could have heard the dialogue in my head it would have been this:
"I need to make sure that I am perfect. I must stare into this mirror to make sure that I look perfect. I am searching everything about me to make sure that I am perfectly beautiful. I can't leave though I have been standing here for at least 15 minutes. If I stare long enough, maybe I will really believe that I am perfect."
I had a middle school friend call me vanity because I was so consumed by my looks...dag! Me and that darn mirror!
Once I began to study the Ancient Spiritual system called Ifa I learned of the goddess Oshun. She exemplifies BEAUTY! She is beautiful and needs all around her to be beautiful, too.
"Oh yes! That is me! I am so Oshun!" I told myself. What I learned is that a physical object that helps one to connect with the energy of Oshun is the mirror...
Read the rest of the article here:
http://www.goddess-body-mind-spirit.com/the-mirror.html
Looking at the beauty that is YOU,
Tirra-Olufemi
www.goddess-body-mind-spirit.com
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Friday, October 30, 2009
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Self-Love and It's Role in Loving Another Person
Self-Love Is How To Love Another Person
Instead of trying to love them more, love you more!
Sometimes the person we love doesn't need us to love them more. Sometimes that person is calling us to be more of who we are.
There are so many of us who stoop low but love big. We love so much that we put our own spiritual growth and development on hold. All we can see, all that we pay attention to is getting love from another.
But what happens when the other says through word or deed, "I really don't want this kind of love from you." Then what do we do?
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Love to all of you
Tirra-Olufemi
www.goddess-body-mind-spirit.com
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